Nabiilah Tjandra

Someone recommended me to watch Manchester by the Sea last week, but Fuiyooh... I watched it the day it was released. So, let me bring the whole story in a brief review! (Left) Casey Affleck, Lucas Hedges This Best Actor and Best Original Script Oscar Winning Film wasn't that Magnificent for me at first. I was in 9th Grade when this film was released, a big baby who know neither value nor good film was. Yet, I kept rewatching this each year to finally understand what this film is trying to offer.  Well, I don't think Manchester by the Sea is a film For me, it's more likely to be a vlog of an extremely broken human with an even more wrecked plot, and that undoubtedly is what makes it such a beautiful piece of art. Manchester by the Sea. It's exactly what makes the film so goddamn genius, real, and authentic. It is exactly what individuals exist daily, and simply it's poured beautifully into each character of the film. The emotion, the plot, it was everything. Next, t...

Ayah bilang, "kalau masih muda, kerja terus aja nggak papa, selagi bisa, all out aja" Ketika aku memutuskan untuk belajar multitasking, aku tidak pernah percaya pada diriku sendiri. Namun, sampai detik ini aku menulis blog,  aku sedang multitasking. Bukan, aku bukan akan meromantisasi budaya hustle. Tidak. Namun, lebih kepada, bagaimana kita bisa membiasakan diri kita, dengan multitasking. Aku, 20 tahun.  Mahasiswa, guru freelance, volunteer organisasi nirlaba. Bagi sebagian orang besar, mungkin apa yang aku lakukan sangatlah kecil dan sedikit. Tapi bagiku tidak. Perjalanan hidupku dimulai dari saat aku memutuskan untuk mengambil tawaran mengajar kelompok belajar teman ibuku—bahasa Inggris. Hingga disini, total 30+ anak pernah aku ajari dan didik, hingga tersisa 12 orang sampai sekarang.  Ditengah kesibukanku menjadi seorang mahasiswa sambil bekerja, rasa burn out pastilah kualami. Melihat teman-temanku menghabiskan akhir pekanya ketika aku harus bekerja hingga malam....

Thanks, Nab! thanks for being a remarkable woman, see... you are twenty now, twenty on twenty-four. Look at you, and look how far you've made it. Look how you inspire people around you, look how much you've earned, look how far you've reached! You deserve all the love and all the appreciation.  Nabiilah, you are fantastic, you are all the girl wishes for. Fuck your past, it's gone now. See your future on how you will pass on another remarkable thing~ You have dreams, and a strong will, and that is what made you now darling.  You worked for your dream, you worked for your will, you worked for your future, Hey, no man can humiliate you. Not anymore, girl you are strong. God, dear future me, if You reread this, I love you, you've worked so hard, without any specific support, and you always be that girl everyone wishes for. See how much people want to be near you, you are an attractive bitch, love yourself, and chase your goals, cause you are spectacular! love, 20 nabii...

[Switching language alert] Cukup aneh bagiku untuk mengikuti organisasi, but I am proudly say that TEDxJalanTunjungan is my first organization! I used to be so happy when I watched TEDx videos, I was also wondering why they have a lot of headquarters with different names. I remember the first time my sister posted that she was attending TEDx offline conference.  Well, who are they? I was 16 years old when I found out that the logo X, was their logo. And I remember clearly how excited I was when I found out that Surabaya, has one. hence I became more curious. I followed their Instagram and subscribed to their YouTube channel, and so on. The way I am excited is the way I am curious.  I joined their Instagram live, I asked when they had a QnA session because I was so obsessed. I became more into it. Especially their videos, I watched all of them, because I was so obsessed. do they have a team? 2021 while I was at a cafe, I saw they held open team recruitment. One word in my head...

Well, hi. Kind of really long, since the last time I wrote. I've been through so many activities hahah, passed a lot of mental breakdown, betrayal, sadness, happy, and eventually I have a little spare time to be back writing Hahaha. So let's jump in. I've ever loved someone so dearly, but at the same time I've betrayed. Without even knowing why, and yet it still unconfirmed till now. A really big mystery, on why certain people do in daily basis. Cheating. Do they feel like its a pride? Do they feel like its such a happy thing to do behind? Do they think that it is a correct thing to do?  What makes it even worse, is when they say some eternal love bullshit, on how they could be the unluckiest person in the world if we breakup. LOL I was so naive, by thinking that it is because certain reason subjectively about me. But, no.  The only reason why it happens, is because the problem is basically on them. Cheating, happens clearly, mindfully, and purposefully. So guess what? ...

     As a human being, we have things that we called reproduction organ, and as we know that unhesitatingly, reproduction organ i.e. vagina, uterus, penis, whatever are they, are very important. But, surprisingly, 60.6% of teenagers in DKI Jakarta, have not yet known about this issue.       What's the thing? why it is very important to keep our reproduction organ healthy?       Maintaining the reproductive organs for both men and women is very important. Our reproductive organs are very vital body parts. They play a role in the reproductive system, in which there are many non-living substances such as hormones and other fluids that must be kept. source : sehatq.com      And here I show you, especially for girls out there, practical ways to keep our reproduction organ healthy; Maintain cleanliness and humidity of the vagina, to avoid fungal and bacterial infections. After urinating, wipe the vagina from front to b...

     "Don't dress tight, it makes you a slut!" "You don't need to go to school, eventually you will end up feeding your kids at the kitchen!" "You are a woman, behave!"           Women were only related with the kitchen and taking care of the household. Stigma and other social dogmas, which are inherent, also cannot be separated from woman. The narrative of "how the nature of women should be" is like an obligations that must be met to achieve validation that we are "real woman".      We are made powerless by a social system that marginalizes what women should be like. Patriarchism, which considers women to be nothing but a "weak object" and have no right to achieve something, haunting the women to be empowered, of their own accord, even to carry out education. It gives nothing but make women feel that being a woman is a bitter destiny, like it or not, it must be accepted by woman.       Other things tha...